Concept

Tell this as a story because people are more inclined to pay attention to something that is entertaining. Keep it short because newcomers have a difficult time focusing.

Use the classic “hero journey” formula:

· The hero travels someplace.

· There is a mystery.

· The hero gains wisdom.

· And then the hero shares that wisdom with others.

Focus on positives.

Use analogies, but let the readers find their own interpretations

Audience

The primary audience for this book is the newcomer.

Keep the story so vague that people can see themselves in it.

· Audience of addicts that reluctantly joined a program.

· Audience of those who are codependent and want to stop rescuing.

· Audience of those with some years who want a tool to help reach the newcomers.

· A tool to help orient newcomers.

Outline

1. The journey

a. What is the problem?

b. Who is the main character? – Marlene

2. Affection (Sympathy) (Loving)

a. Use analogy of light for love and dark for hate

b. Rescuing and enabling are not healthy

c. Introduce the sponsor – Bob

3. Awareness (Sensitivity) (Listening)

a. Use the analogy of music for awareness and silence for denial

b. Denial is an activity

i. We are always busy but going no where

ii. Think about Las Vegas isolation from our normal sleep cycle

4. Affiliation (Sharing) (Learning)

a. Analogy of up and down motion in the fishbowl

b. Analogy of crabs for people focused on self

c. Analogy of fish for people trapped in peer groups – and gangs

d. The core idea is that some rise above these limits

5. Alignment

a. Analogy of working the steps and aligning with the program

b. Analogy of sponsor as a tour guide

6. Discipleship

a. Now the hero has the wisdom

b. And starts to share it with others

Background

Marlene is a mermaid.

Bob is a sea horse.

Daniel is a crab.

Ellen and Fred are tuna.

Beth and Andy are dolphins – very smart.

Linda is an octopus – lots of hands always reaching for your wallet.

Abstract

How Big is Your Fishbowl is a short story about the adventures of Marlene and Bob. If you or someone you love is dealing with turmoil, then this short story might help you find a way forward.

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